Question: If a man has more pleasure with sex with his wife while using anal sex toys, does that make him have homosexual tendencies? Even though he doesn't have any desire for another man and thinks that it is disgusting to see men kiss.
Our Answer: We tell couples that there is lots of freedom and latitude in sexual adventure in the bedroom for Christians. Refer to our article Sex Was God’s Idea (what’s okay?), to find the Scriptural basis for deciding what is okay before God.
We advise couples to stay away from anal play because, unlike the vagina, the anus is not designed with a lubricated layer of tissue. When there is friction, lesions and sores form more easily.
All that being said, a man’s desire for anal toys during sex does not necessarily point toward homosexual tendencies.