I have no feelings during sex with my wife? Please help me?

by Abdulla sareef
(Sri Lanka)

Question: I have no feelings during sex with my wife? My wife also same. Please help me.

Our Answer: Without knowing anything about you, your wife, or your relationship our suggestions will be limited! We have 3 things to say:

1. Make the pursuit of intimacy (of which sex is one of four types) your goal--not satisfying sex. When the goal is actually broader (spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and then sexual) the end result will always be great sex! check out: Intimacy and Sex


2. You and your wife need to get your sex-life on track! We suggest a week-long in-home marriage enrichment course, entitled 7-Day Sex Challenge Course.


3. Spend quality time talking with your wife, and reading through articles on this site together. Make your aim to be meeting the needs of your wife! Your wife’s aim is to meet your needs. That’s when great things happen!