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i need my husband to spank me why and how

Question: I need my husband to spank me how and why. I do not want him to ask me just do it. I am a devoted Christian woman and I feel our relationship would be better if I felt he was more in charge.

Our Answer:

Dear Reader,

We are limited in how we can respond to your commment:

  • we have no knowledge of your marital relationship at all

  • we are not professional sex therapists

  • we are not privy to your personal background

Consequently, comments on your sexual desire might not be helpful in the long term for your relationship. That being said, there are 2 articles you need to read that will help you:

The first is Christian Views on Sex and it outlines God's parameters on sex--the Commandments from the Bible, as well as the Principles that God's Word teaches. When a husband and wife desire to follow God's ways, they will discover that the Bible teaches that sexuality within marriage can be a wonderful, exciting experience for both husband and wife!

The second article is a detailed reponse to another reader that had a desire for spanking: Spanking for Sexual Pleasure

We hope this reading will be of help!

Sincerely,

Jim and Carrie

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Dec 29, 2010
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I need my husband to spank me.
by: Blondie

Basically you need to ask him to do it because it arouses you. You need to eradicate all ideas from him that he is punishing you or hurting you.

Personally I think anything to do with punishment arouses something unhealthy. Like a childhood hurt or something.

If it is just spanking for sexual reasons he shouldn't have any reason not to do it. It's not hurting him. I would persevere. This is quite common in a lot of marriages. Think of it as a glorified massage.

Jan 09, 2011
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Playful Spanking
by: Jim and Carrie

Let's face it: the Bible doesn't say anything about spanking or not spanking as part of sexual play. [In another context, we might be tempted to refer to the verse that tells us "when you're hit on one cheek, turn the other"! Sorry for this non-serious comment! ;-)] And so, you can?t automatically say "it's not Christian-like to enjoy spanking during a time of sex play". It depends on some other factors... If we are talking about playful spanking, that's one thing. In this scenario, you need not have a guilty conscience. On the other hand, if we're talking about spanking in order to bring pain, or to intentionally degrade, then that's another thing altogether.

*This comment is quoted from another answer to a similar question on our site.

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