Know About First Time Sex

by S.P.
(Mumbai, Maharastra, India)

Question
When a boy and a girl have sex for the first time, is it possible to know it is their first time? How do we know a girl is having sex for the first time? What is the sign (mark) to know it is her first time having sex?

Our Answer:
We're assuming you are asking about your future bride...if so, the easiest way is to just ask her! If you can’t trust the girl to give you a truthful answer, then why are you pursuing a relationship with her? A healthy marriage relationship is built on trust. We also suggest that you wait to have sex with her until you are married. Use your dating/courting time to get to know one another really well outside of the physical relationship of sex.

But, to answer your question about a sign... girls have a membrane partially covering the vaginal opening called a hymen. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia. With some girls, there may be some bleeding during intercourse for the first time. However, many girls tear the hymen long before their first sexual experience. It is not possible to confirm with certainty that a woman is a virgin by examining her hymen.