A Husband has a Problem with EjaculationQuestion from Cameroon: [ Problem with ejaculation ] "I love my husband and he loves me. He does everything for me to satisfy me sexually but we have a problem. My husband has a problem of ejaculation, in two sexual relationship he will ejaculate once, what can we do? Thanks a lot." Answer: I am happy to hear you and your husband love each other and have a good marriage. This is the way I understand your question… Your husband is only able to orgasm (ejaculate) every other time you have sex. To help your husband achieve orgasm every time, I suggest you make sure you extend foreplay for a longer period of time without any time deadline. Sex is supposed to be fun but if your husband thinks he has to “perform” or that he might “fail” by not having an ejaculation, then that stress might make ejaculation difficult. If your lovemaking includes fun and no stress, with a long time of foreplay before intercourse—your husband may experience orgasm more easily. There could also be medical reasons for his not being able to ejaculate. Perhaps your husband is taking medication that has side effects that impact his ability to orgasm. I am sorry that I am not a medical expert on ejaculation, and would suggest you consult with a doctor if the problem persists. Forgive me if I misunderstood your question. Did you mean to ask why your husband isn’t able to ejaculate a second time right after his first ejaculation? Men need a minimum of 45 minutes between sexual orgasms to allow their bodies to replenish. Most men need longer than this! This is a difference between men and women: women are able to have multiple orgasms but men only orgasm once.
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