Pure Romance is the Best!Pure romance, the language of love! 
For most men, romance is the doorway to intimacy that will (hopefully!) lead to sex. On the other hand, most women would not view romance as a means to an end at all: pure romance is the end itself! Herein lies one of our problems, men! We don’t easily think like women. Stereotypically, advice for men consists of the recipe approach:
Basically, that’s the recipe approach to romantic advice! When we focus on intimacy, however, we highlight the behaviours and values that promote closeness between lovers. Here are four different areas to consider:
To develop romance, we focus primarily on emotional intimacy and the things that help us grow closer to our lover as it relates to connecting with our feelings. However, romance also needs intellectual intimacy--we must grow closer by understanding our lover. Herein is a man's biggest challenge! Most men know women want romance, but aren't quite sure what to do; they discover many unspoken expectations that easily sabotage any sort of "recipe approach" to romance! The solution is to become a student of your wife--learn how she thinks: her likes, dislikes, opinions, attitudes, and values. As you pay this special attention to your wife, it won't take long before romance isn't so hard. Making gestures that are thoughtful, sensitive, and loving you will come second nature--and you will discover your true romantic self!
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