Q and A Section

Check our Q and A page for questions that you may have wanted to ask. Click at the end of each question in the list below and you’ll be taken to the corresponding answer page. Come back here often to see what new questions have been submitted by couples just like you!

Question regarding When a Wife Wants More Sex Than Her Husband
"Why does my husband have such a hard time committing to being intimate with me?

He has agreed that he likes it to be more often, yet the problem goes on, and I'm the one that's not being satisfied. I've talked to him so many times about this! Why does it in my opinion, seem unnatural to him? What am I supposed to do?

Often I've had to resort to taking care of myself, and that proves he is unfeeling to my needs." Answer!

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Question: Girlfriend Expects Too Much?
"What do you advise a woman who says that before she gets married to a man he should earn more than she does and should cater for all house bills? What kind of Christian mentality is this? Please advise.

What scripture can I use to advise this woman?" Answer!

This Q and A will be of special interest to couples who are engaged... Keeping your engagement guilt-free
"My fiancé and I have been engaged for 2 and half months. We have 9 and a half months to go before we get married. This is a long engagement we realize. But it is necessary because we are both in college, and we don't have time to plan a wedding. We have been going too far physically and we both know it, and we both try to stop, but we always fail. The farthest we've gone is petting over the clothes. What advice do you have to help us slow down?" Answer!

Question about a Boyfriend Who Can’t Make Up His Mind
"I am an 18 year old girl dating a guy of 25. He has quit several times and after wards begs to come back which I accept; problem is I don’t know if he truly loves me like he says he does. He was born January 31st, and I was born February 15th. Please, I need your response 2 know if he is truly in love with me." Answer!

Question about Talking to Others about Marriage Trouble
"I had a question regarding your statement about it not being a good idea to talk to anyone other than your spouse about your marriage concerns and problems. Is it OK for a young woman to talk to a wiser, older female relative about her marriage in the interest of gaining wisdom and learning things the older woman has already learned?" Answer!

Question about Becoming More Romantic
"Any tips for a husband to become more romantic?" Answer!

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Question about What's Acceptable in the Bedroom: "My wife and I had a disagreement last year about what was acceptable in the bedroom. We had "toys" and magazines. That was all tossed a year ago. Where should one draw the line between education, enhancement, spice, variety, new-ness and pornography?" Answer!

Question about Scheduled Sex
"As our lives are so scheduled, do you recommend setting dates for a romantic encounter? In other words you and your spouse both know that i.e. Thursday night is romance night. Do you feel that setting a date will heighten the moment or take away from it?" Answer!

Question about Calling Boyfriend to Make Sure He's Okay
"I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He's a firefighter, and as you might know firefighters work on 24 hour shift schedules. He's made it a point to not talk to me on the days that he works to avoid any future occurrences of calling too often at work.

All I want to know is if he's safe but he thinks I'm being ridiculous. What should I do? How should I tell him that I only want to know that he's alright, and him believe that that is my only intent?" Answer!

Question about Masturbation in Marriage
"Is there any place for masturbation in the marriage relationship?" Answer!

Question about Unresolved Issues
"What new approach would you use to bring up a problem topic that repeatedly has been unresolved in the past because my spouse justifies his actions with reasons and excuses that I do not totally accept?" Answer!

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