Q and A: Sex Advice

Can't keep an erection 
Question: My husband and I have been married for 7 years and have enjoyed wonderful sex. Lately he has found it hard to keep hard and firm during intercourse....

i need my husband to spank me why and how 
Question: I need my husband to spank me how and why. I do not want him to ask me just do it. I am a devoted Christian woman and I feel our relationship ...

Engaged and yet having sex? Is that ok? 
Question: I want to thank you so much for this site. It is such a blessing to get solid answers from the Bible and realistic wholesome answers offering ...

withholding sex from your husband 
Should a Christian wife withhold sex until her husband does something she wants him to do, and after he does that task, she will have sex with him?

Our ...

Is Masturbating with My Boyfriend a Sin? 
I did this thing with my boyfriend because sex before marriage is sin. Now, I feel guilty because maybe masturbation is sin. We did like this: we take ...

Spanking as Foreplay  Not rated yet
Question: I am aroused quickly by being spanked by my wife or by spanking her. Early in our marriage she was OK with that but then decided that it ...

Sex  Not rated yet
Question: My wife rarely, if ever, let's me touch her vagina. I am so turned on by her and I am just wanting to please and satisfy her, but she says ...

Anal sex  Not rated yet
Question: I have been told that the Bible clearly says anal sex is forbidden, but nowhere can I find a specific verse or book that condemns it. If ...

Sex  Not rated yet
Question: How do I get my husband aroused?

Our Answer: Dear Erica,

Without having much information about the specifics of your situation,...

Is masturbation okay with or without your spouse?  Not rated yet
Question: Is it ok to masturbate with or without your spouse?

Our Answer: The Bible does not specifically mention masturbation. There are some ...

sex  Not rated yet
Question: My wife enjoys me licking her a**. Is this normal?

Our Answer: The skin surrounding the anus is quite sensitive, and as a result any ...

In other locations  Not rated yet
Question: Is it wrong to have sex in other locations than the bedroom?

Our Answer: The simple, straightforward answer is. "No!" You can have ...

Foreplay  Not rated yet
Question: Looking for new ideas...

Our Answer: Please understand that the most important thing about sex is not sex--it's INTIMACY!

We will ...

Sex position /Self help books  Not rated yet
Question: Should Christian couples, together or alone, look at or solicit sex position books to help each other enhance new ways of sex techniques?...

Husband is serving in Iraq...  Not rated yet
I am a military wife, recently my husband went to Iraq. We haven't had a very solid relationship and in fact both of us admit we've used sex a lot to ...

Too Much Sex?  Not rated yet
I love my husband and enjoy sex with him. I am having difficulty with the fact that he wants to have sex everyday, sometimes twice a day. The problem ...

Masturbation  Not rated yet
What about mutual masturbation between married couples?

Our Answer:
This area is handled extensively in our website. Check our article about masturbation ...

What is acceptable in the bedroom?  Not rated yet
My wife and I have been happily married for over 10 years and have enjoyed sexual union on a regular basis. Both of us were virgins when we met so we had ...

Arousing my husband  Not rated yet
What are a few things to try when arousing my husband? He is very ticklish and so it's hard to massage, kiss the body. He doesn't like that, so I need ...

Is She Cheating?  Not rated yet
My wife and I have been married for 23 years and she is more intimate with herself than with me. I don't know what to do. I don't know if she is cheating ...

Baby Interrupts Intimate Moments  Not rated yet
We have been blessed with a 9-month old son. We were wondering if you might have some advice for our situation. Since the baby has been in our lives,...