Q and A: Sex Problems

This Q and A page lists questions related to sex problems. Click at the end of each question to read the rest of the question along with our answer.

New questions with our answers will be posted here regularly.

A Wife is Uncomfortable with Her Husband's Interest in Spanking During Sexual Foreplay
"I've been married for 20 years... my husband has wanted me to participate in what I would term "deviant sex"..." ...more

A Wife Wants More Sex Than Her Husband
"Why does my husband have such a hard time committing to being intimate with me?..." ...more

What's Acceptable in the Bedroom
"My wife and I had a disagreement last year about what was acceptable in the bedroom..." ...more

Question about Scheduled Sex
"As our lives are so scheduled, do you recommend setting dates for a romantic encounter?..." ...more

Question about Stimulating Her G-Spot
"I've found my wife's g-spot: she says I hit it during intercourse, but then..." ...more

Question about Dry and Painful Sex
"It is starting to hurt when I have sex..." ...more

Question about Kissing No Longer a Turn-On
"I used to get turned on with just kissing but now I don't anymore..." ...more

Question about Husband Too Tired for Sex
"My husband and I used to get together 3 times a week, and now for quite a while, his work is ..." ...more

Husband Wants Advice to Prevent Early Ejaculation
"My problem is I never feel satisfaction due to early discharge ..." ...more

Questions Other Visitors Have Asked

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Wife never wants to have sex 
Question: I've been married for just under one year now and my wife never seems to want to have sex. Everyone I talk to says that they have (or had) …

Vaginismus - Unconsummated marriage fear 
I was diagnosed with Vaginismus four months ago. I am on a waiting list for psychosexual counselling. I am due to be married in just over three weeks' …

I Have No Interest in Sex 
I'm 43 and have been married for almost 8 years ... have been with my husband for 13 years. I love him, but yet I have absolutely no interest in having …

Wife Avoids Sex 
How do I stop getting so angry at my wife because she seems to be always dragging her feet when it comes to sex? Our Answer: Your question is short …

unconsummated marriage 
Question: Hi. It’s a year since we’ve been married... but still we had no penetration... I’ve some questions. How long does a penis stay erect? …

Pain During Sex Not rated yet
Question: My husband and I only have sex once or twice a week. Every time we have sex, he likes to insert his finger inside my vagina and touch my …

Erectile Dysfunction Not rated yet
Question: My husband and I have a wonderful relationship, but in the bedroom is where it’s lacking. He says that he actually has a problem with arousal. …

Turned off of intimacy after birth of child? Not rated yet
Question: I am a man that helped assist in the birth of our child (with girlfriend). Soon after, I became turned off to the idea of future intimacy …

Delayed ejaculation and reduced volume Not rated yet
Question: Hi, I am a 28 year old man recently married. My wife and I have not had a great amount of sex due to time and other constraints. However, …

sex Not rated yet
Question: I can't seem to keep my husband aroused and hard during foreplay and sex. What am I doing wrong? Our Answer: You're probably not doing …

Is there such a thing as good Christian sex? Not rated yet
Question (some explicit details have been omitted): I was on anti depressants for about the last 10 years, partly because of threats against my life …

Intimacy issues  Not rated yet
Problems with verbally abusive and very controlling father and transferred that issue to her husband after married. The husband was not that way and had …

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