Texting intimate photos
Is it ok to want my wife to text me private pictures while I'm at work? I would be extra extra careful to keep them only to my viewing. Here's hoping...
Our Answer:
Sure, it's okay for her to send you explicit photos to your cell phone and it's okay for you to want her to... But don't make her do it if she's uncomfortable doing so.
...While you're at work? That's okay too, if you're looking at them on your breaktime! Don't get yourself too distracted or your boss may wonder what's going on! ;-)
That being said...there are a few important considerations to keep in mind:
- Have you both taken every precaution to prevent anyone else from seeing those photos? For example, you'd hate to show someone photos on your camera phone forgetting about those explicit ones your wife sent you!
- What if you lost your phone and someone else opened it up? Or one of your kids got curious about what's on your phone? Here are a couple of suggestions:
- set your phone to lock automatically when it's closed or not used after a minute or two AND then set it to require a password to unlock
- make sure photos never include you or your wife's faces
