What should l do to arouse my boyfriend?

by Mable
(Harare)

Question: What should l do to arouse my boyfriend?

Our Answer: Don’t arouse your boyfriend at all!

The Bible says, “Don’t awaken {physical} love before its time”. This reflects the fact that sexual intimacy needs to be saved for marriage, so that the other types of intimacies (intellectual, emotional, and spiritual) can be developed during the dating/engagement as the rock-solid basis for a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

When women give sex prior to marriage, they are devaluing sex and themselves. Men that know they have to marry you to have sex with you will value you!

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Jul 15, 2011
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Marriage a Representation of God's Eternal Plan
by: Clayton

I agree with the answer given above.I would like to share a revelation about marriage. Marriage is a representation of God's Eternal plan Of His Unity with the Church, His Body, His Love. So that's why we see that God gives so much attention to marriage in the Bible. God hates sexual immorality because it is a mockery to what God intended in marriage, and eventually in Christ's Union with the Church.

That's why the Bible says, "Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the Church, and Wives submit to your husbands...". Therefore, we must have a high regard for Marriage. It is a covenant that God honors. Therefore any kind of sexual intimacy outside marriage dishonors God. Let us therefore be cautious.


Aug 04, 2011
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I've got an answer
by: Anonymous

Depending on his preference. You can kiss, necks and ears are very sensitive. Running your hand along the inside of his thigh, right near where it connects to his torso. Words can be very arousing, tell him what you want him to do to you, or what you want to do to him. Show him how much he arouses you, guys love it when they know that they get you aroused.

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