when can you tell when it's over
When can you tell when it's over? Why has she been not interested in us anymore?
Are you married? If so, don't ever consider it over!
Unfortunately, given the small amount of information, we can't form an intelligent comment in response except to say that you should attend counseling together to save your relationship. There are a lot of reasons why she may not be interested in you and the relationship including:
- unmet needs
- interested in someone else
- not feeling cherished and loved
- bitterness from past disappointments
A counselor would be able to help the two of you talk through issues that may have influenced your girlfriend/wife's feeling for you.
Jim and Carrie