Where to get games...

I'm not sure if it's ok to go to adult stores to look for games for my wife and I. I haven't said anything to her about it yet but I would like to know what you think.

Our Answer:

A husband needs to be cautious about going into an adult store. Though adult stores may keep the most sensual and erotic items in the "back corner of the store", it may still be uncomfortable for you or your wife to shop at an adult store. Many adult stores include pornographic media and products to be used in unwholesome and ungodly sexual acts. You want to stay clear away from any of that! If, after considering all of this, your wife is okay with you going, we'd suggest that you ask her to join you.

Better yet, why don't the two of you do some online shopping together? You can do this in the safety of your home and it is easy for you to just visit an online store's web-pages for items you are specifically searching for rather than be presented with everything that a store might have to offer (which is what happens when you walk into an adult store).

Of course, shopping online requires you to be very careful. You don't want to be stimulated by viewing wrong material. It's important that you only visit online stores that are truly designed to help marriages rather than sites that include nudity and highly erotic images.

Check our Marriage Resources page for a listing of several online stores that are safe places to shop! Look in the "Intimacy Products" section of the resources page.

We also have an article that might give you more ideas for games to play. Read that article with your wife and ask her to choose a game that she thinks would be fun!